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We recently did a podcast interview with Catherine Behan, a 62 year old cougar who dished out her best secrets to meeting, seducing and dating older women. I didn’t expect to be having the best sex of my life in my sixties. “You are not.” “I was trying to pick the oldest age you might believe so you wouldn’t think I was too young,” he laughed back.It was so awesome, that we decided to add her as one of our experts at Men Provement and she will be writing a series of articles on how you can meet, attract and date hot cougars. I didn’t realize how controversial it would be to be an openly sexually liberated woman. “Ok,” he said, “I’m 44.” By this point this very younger man had been flirting with me for several weeks.
I wasn’t sure where it was going but I loved the feeling I got when he was around.
It had been a very long time since I had felt anything like this.
My ex was older than me and sex wasn’t interesting to him anymore.
I really don’t remember how I reacted when he told me how old he really was. He was on a project at my work so he would come and go with no set schedule.
I tried to shut my mind up about his age and just enjoy his attention, but it wasn’t easy. The next thing I knew he was kissing the back of my neck.
On Valentine’s Day he found me alone in the office and made a move. He ran his fingers through my hair and said, “I’ll be right back.” I still shiver thinking about how good it felt to have his hands in my hair that first time. I was so ready and hungry for his touch at this point, there was absolutely no resistance.
By this time we had several flirty encounters and I was definitely attracted to him. Like I said, no one had touched me like that in many years. Being at work, there was no way to act on the feelings so nothing happened physically between us for a long time.A few stolen kisses in secluded corners built up killer anticipation.It was 3 weeks before we finally arranged to meet up alone in a place other than work. There is nothing like the time between the first glimpse of a crush and the first orgasmic date (whether real time or cyber).He made it clear right from the start that he wanted me to feel good. He didn’t press me at all and took a long time to build that delicious sexual tension that happens with a new partner. It is like a hit from the fountain of youth every time.Over and over he told me, “You deserve to have this. Once sex happens for the first time, there is a different vibe between partners, whether true love is involved or not. The sex is off the chart and a well-sexed woman is a force to be reckoned with.You are a kind generous woman and you deserve to have something special.” Was it a line? That is fine and sex is still great but there is nothing like the pleasure of that first time with a new lover. We are nearly 10 months in and sex is still very fun and very good for me. So if you have older ladies ready willing and able to date younger men, why aren’t more hooking up? Research shows that nearly 35% of women over 40 date younger men.